Do you think your boss showers one or more employees in your team with special treatment, while the efforts of others go in vain? If so, understand that the workplace is almost never a level playing field because bosses and employees are all too human. Work place favoritism has probably existed since the dawn of workplaces, and most people find themselves at one end of the spectrum or other at some point in time.
While dealing with a biased boss might seem daunting, you need put your foot down at some stage in order to move forward professionally. Fortunately, finding a solution might be simpler than you think.
Signs of a Biased Boss
You need to be sure if your boss is biased so you may take effective corrective actions. Here are signs that mark bias in a boss.
- A particular employee is constantly showered with praise for no apparent reason.
- Others in your team get better career development opportunities.
- You feel micromanaged all the time.
- You don’t get feedback.
- Your request for a raise is rejected without a valid reason.
- You’re not included in important meetings.
- You receive criticism even when you do a good job.
Are You Really a Victim?
Are you sure that your boss is biased or might you have perceived a situation incorrectly? One way to determine if you’re thinking straight is to ask your colleagues if they feel the same way. Pay attention to conversations between your boss and those who you feel receive undue praise. Could it be that the people you who feel are being favored are actually more adept at handling tasks assigned to them? Remember that an incorrect assumption can lead to drastic consequences.
Act Normally
Pretend that you have no inclination about your boss playing favorites. You definitely don’t want your boss to see you in bad light, which is why you need to keep all adverse reactions at bay. While you might not be your boss’ favorite, you don’t want to end up at the bottom of the ladder either. Bear in mind that emotions can cloud your vision. Determine what the favored employee is doing right, because two can play the game.
Know Your Performance Metrics
Seek clarity about the performance metrics that apply on your team. Ask for your key responsibility areas (KRAs) so you can identify the basis of your evaluation. With a clear picture of your targets and expected standards, you know just what you need to do to get your boss’ attention. However, this also requires that you put your best foot forward consistently, and work on improving your skills.
Find a Mentor
If you feel that no matter what you do your boss is just not giving you your due, consider finding a mentor. A mentor can guide you in exploring other possible roles within your organization based on your skill set. In addition, you may also receive guidance surrounding what you need to do to improve your skills and how to get noticed by other leaders in your organization.
Document All That You See and Hear
Once you’re sure that your boss is biased, start documenting all that you might see or hear about him/her, because this is crucial when it comes to establishing a pattern of biased behavior. However, this step requires that you be honest and objective. You might make use of this documentation at a later stage, if higher ups or the HR department enters the picture.
Talk to Your Boss
You might consider bringing your reservations up with your boss directly. However, make sure you are subtle, as opposed to being accusatory. In some cases, highlighting clear data points instead of making generic statements helps bring to the surface some unconscious biases.
Explore Other Options
When all else fails, you might want to look for other opportunities, either within your organization, or elsewhere. Some organizations give employees the ability to make lateral moves to other managers or projects. At this stage, affecting a positive change is basically up to you.
What You Need to Do If You Face Discriminatory Bias
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) states that it is illegal to discriminate against employees based on race, religion, color, sex, age (40 or older), national origin, disability, or genetic information. It is also illegal to retaliate against anyone who has complained about discrimination, filed an official complaint about discrimination, or taken part in an employment discrimination lawsuit or investigation.
If you find yourself in any such situation, consider filing a complaint with your organization’s HR department. You might also think about contacting a lawyer and/or the EEOC.
Conclusion
There is no reason for you to go out of your way to please your boss as long as you’re good at your work. What you need to bear in mind, though, is that your boss is simply trying to provide value to his/her boss. Favorites typically help managers look good in front of their bosses, so there’s no real bias there. If you can think of a way to make your boss’ life easier, you might find yourself becoming the next favorite. If things seem beyond your control and the bias is real, reporting it might be your best bet.
