How to Handle a Coworker Who is Trying to Force You Into a Political Debate?

Do you find yourself at the receiving end of a coworker who is persistently trying to coax you into a political debate? Do you feel annoyed that you have to prove yourself in a capacity that has nothing to you with your professional role? If so, know that effective measures might be closer at hand than you think.

A Case Study

Julia works as a senior IC at a FAANG. One of her juniors tried to goad her into arguments based on a one-off political comment she made. Soon, it got to a point where she had to tell him that while their political views might not be the same, she was not comfortable discussing them, at work or elsewhere.

That did not have the desired effect, so she had to tell him she was banning all political conversations between them.  While this finally put an end to her woes, she said she was prepared to go to HR as a last resort.

What this goes to show is that simply asserting yourself might do the trick.

Set Boundaries

With political statements and opinions around the country flying thick and fast, it is very important to protect your boundaries. Where things stand, political debates are no more than two sides standing on their high horses – screaming about how and why they are right. If a coworker is pushing you into a political debate, simply say you would rather focus on work. 

Remember that you don’t have to talk about anything that is not related to your work while you are at work. Instead, you should feel empowered enough to decide whether or not you wish to participate in such conversations.

Know When to Take a Step Back

You need to be aware of the other person’s energy and body language so you can determine if a situation is getting heated or confrontational. If so, your best bet is to walk away. This is because staying calm and composed in a professional setting is way more important than trying to get someone else to see your point.

Backing away is easy. All you need to do is say you have something else to do. This could be getting back to work, making a phone call, or running an errand. Alternatively, you can try changing the topic. If that does not work, you might need to follow a more direct approach. In this case, you could say you simply don’t want to talk about it anymore.

If you reach a point where you feel a flutter in your stomach, a racing heart, or sweaty palms, know that your body has entered the fight or flight mode. At this stage, calming down requires that you make a conscious effort. The best you can do is end the conversation in an amicable manner.

Be Respectful

Respecting others’ political views at the workplace is just as important at respecting other aspects of their lives. Just because a coworker does not share the same political views as you, it does not have to lead to hostility, harassment, or retaliation. So, even if you feel you are being pushed in a corner and are being forced to retaliate, simply take the higher road and walk away.

When All Else Fails

Companies do not want their employees’ political inclinations and affiliations to affect their work in any adverse way. They want you to do your job well and be on your way. If all the efforts you put in getting your coworker to back off go in vain, consider taking the matter up with your HR department.

Unfortunately, data released by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) suggests that more than a third of working American feel that their workplaces are not inclusive of different political perspectives. If you find that your HR is not taking effective measures to alleviate your problem, you might have to think about whether you wish to continue in your existing role or look for a new job.

If you feel your coworker’s persistence constitutes as harassment, you might even want to get a legal opinion. 

Conclusion

Falling into a trap and ending up arguing about your political views with a coworker will do you no good. After all, neither of you are going to change your political views through the course of a heated argument. Remember that entering a political debate of refraining from one is entirely up to you, and when at work, steering clear of any such situation is always in your best interest.

Joining a new job ? Make sure to ask these

Consider a scenario where an interviewer asks you if you have any questions about the company or the role for which you’re interviewing. Do you have a number of questions to ask, or are you left wondering? If you’re not sure about what questions to ask, you’ll have a fair indication of which way to go once you’re done watching this video.

Why do you need to ask questions during an interview, you wonder? Well, doing so can give you a clear picture of what to expect in your new job, and it can also help you make a well-informed decision.

While questions might vary depending on the type of role you’re applying for, here are some that remain common no matter which technology-based role you seek.

Will I have ownership of products?

It helps to find out if you’ll have to work along a predetermined path or if you’ll have enough influence to affect changes. For instance, you might get complete ownership of a product as soon as you join one organization, whereas you might have to wait indefinitely in another. Find out who decides product roadmaps and who is responsible for providing inputs. Ask if you’ll get to interact will all important stakeholders. This will better indicate your role in the organization.

Can I work on side projects?

Bear in mind that not all companies encourage or even allow their employees to take on side projects. Ask if working on side projects is allowed, be it contributing to open source platforms or developing software. If it’s allowed, your next question should cover the process you need to follow. Then, find out if you will need to get permission from the legal department. In some cases, companies take ownership of their employees’ side projects, especially if they’re related to the same market segment.

What will my work hours look like?

Sure, you get an indication of your work hours before you join. However, make sure you ask how realistic the timings are, ideally from an existing team member. This is because hiring and process managers might not give you the real picture.

How good is the company with following customer timelines?

Try to determine the approach your probable employer follows when adhering to timelines set by its customers. For instance, if a customer requires a product in two months, will the company ensure that it delivers within the given time frame? While an answer in the affirmative might speak well about the company’s outlook toward its customers, it can also indicate signs of burnouts for its employees – because you might need to burn the midnight oil, over and over again.

Who are your biggest clients and what pain points do you address?

Answers to these questions will vary significantly. However, what you need to look for in the answers is if they’re aligned. If you feel they’re largely misaligned, you get two options from which to choose. You may either view this as a red flag or consider taking it on as a challenge.

How many employees work from home?

Given the change in working styles and environments that have come about because of the COVID-19 pandemic, this question begs to be asked. While some companies are going all out in getting their employees to work from home, some others are not as forthcoming. 

Questions You Need to Ask Before Joining a Startup

If you plan to join a startup, you might benefit by asking these questions as well.

• What problem is the company trying to solve, and what is its USP?
• What’s your long-term vision for my role, my team, and the organization?
• What is your growth strategy?
• Is the company looking at being acquired soon or does it plan to move ahead on its own?
• Do you have an exit strategy in place?
• Who are the existing shareholders?
• How many months of operations can you sustain before the next round of funding?
• What is the biggest risk that the company faces?

Remember that an interview gives you the opportunity to clear any doubt you might have about your new job. Asking the right questions at this stage is crucial if you wish to sail smoothly down the line. After all, what good is landing up in a role or an organization that does little for your career’s growth?

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